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    Series:Effective Living
 
 Gathic Illustration
 
    Author:Pearlstein, Arthur
 
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    Conflict happens. Effective and meaningful resolution of conflict, all too 
    often, does not. As we look around our world—from fighting in the Balkans 
    and the Middle East, to labor strikes, to divorce—we can find conflicts that 
    persist despite the painful costs and despite the fact that there may be a 
    variety of possible resolutions that would leave the parties better off. 
    This reality has spawned a relatively new field of study known as “conflict 
    resolution.” Cobbled together from an eclectic variety of 
    disciplines—including law, psychology, economics, and sociology—conflict 
    resolution has developed theories and principles that have constantly 
    expanding application in new areas of human endeavor. As I near the end of 
    an academic fellowship in the field, I am struck by the degree to which 
    these guiding principles have seemed so familiar to me. I have, as it turns 
    out, seen them before: in the Gathas of Zarathushtra. 
    One of the guiding precepts of conflict resolution is the importance of 
    participation and creativity in our approach. The key is to use conflict, 
    where possible, as a positive force that prevents stagnation, stimulates 
    curiosity and learning, and promotes the search for new solutions at both 
    individual and social levels. Being creative and constructive; taking 
    responsibility; using our good minds to bring about fresh ideas; these are 
    themes that recur frequently in the Gathas. 
    Conflict resolution is 
    also about better outcomes. Theorists talk about integrative approaches to 
    problem solving: “expanding the pie before dividing it,” or “creating value 
    before claiming it,” or, what has become a cliché, seeking “win-win 
    solutions.” The use of a collaborative approach to reach the right result, 
    in the right way, at the right time, is something Zarathushtra would have 
    applauded. He taught that wise people should unite and pool their wisdom to 
    improve the world: “...those who strive with good name shall be united in 
    the good abode of good mind and righteousness of the Wise One.” (Y 
    30.10, D. J. Irani translation). At the same time, seeking a resolution that 
    leaves all the parties better off, rather than merely taking from one to 
    give to another, echoes Gathic teaching. “...Happiness linked with 
    dishonor, happiness that harms others is poison for the seeker.” (Y 
    53.6, D. J. Irani translation 1994). 
    Another key principle of 
    conflict resolution is the need to listen to, understand, and respect 
    differing positions. As the prophet taught: “One who listens and realizes 
    the truth, becomes a life-healing wise person. He controls his tongue to 
    express the right words when he wills. He, O Wise One, through Your radiant 
    light, proves good to both parties.” (Y. 31.19, A. Jafarey translation). 
    In the domain of law, the legal community is being urged by many to move 
    away from its exclusive, adversarial focus on the use of courts to resolve 
    conflicts and, instead, to seek more constructive, alternative dispute 
    resolution methods. Negative and reactive thinking produced by adversarial 
    argument stifles imagination and creativity and often constrains settlement 
    of disputes. Our attempts to address every conceivable social issue with a 
    written proscription has led to excessive reliance on law. The Gathas 
    contain only guidelines, not a list of proscriptions. Zarathushtra counseled 
    against reactive, destructive thinking—he warned against anger and 
    bitterness. 
    As the study of conflict 
    resolution expands, we gain new and greater insights into the degree to 
    which conflict provides opportunity for growth. In recognizing the 
    importance of learning “…how to deliver the wrong into the hands of 
    righteousness.” (Y. 30.8, A. Jafarey translation), Zarathushtra 
    anticipated the modern field of conflict resolution by thousands of years. 
    Article appeared in the 
    Summer issue of the FEZANA journal.  Courtesy of Arthur Pearlstein, and the 
    guest editor of the Summer issue of the FEZANA journal, Mrs. Dina McIntyre 
    in consenting to this publication is hereby acknowledged. |